I have to make a will.
I don't want to, but I'm at that age. I actually own property, so that also makes it necessary.
I also have life insurance and stuff, making this necessary.
Sometime ago, I made my brother and his wife the beneficiary and contingents at 100%.
After a lot of thought and a lot of soul searching, I modified it this evening and added a second benificiary.
I made the split 75% to my brother and 25% to the secondary beneficiary.
It's the right thing to do, even if its going to cause some controversy in my family. I don't care. It's what I want. I need to do this. I will be more at peace right knowing this is taken care of.
I asked Mrs. Jackson if she would take my cats in the event that something untimely happens to me. I asked that she raise them the way that I would.
She agreed, which I was counting on.
All that is left is the matter of my home, car and piano. The rest is incidental.
I am tidying up the interior and getting rid of extraneous things as well as giving away things I don't need or use. I live well, but I don't take care of things the way that I should.
Deciding how to handle the house is tough. What I want to do with it, is, leave it to one of the life insurance beneficiaries so they will always have a place to live. I don't know how that will fly or work, but I am expecting and anticipating that being the way this is going to go.
Oh and I know what my attorney will say. Again - don't care. He will advise me properly and I will listen and hear what he says, then I will do it my way.
It's an act of love, making sure that the people you love most in the world are taken care of after you depart.
I plan to have my funeral wishes written down and included in the will as well. For those of you that know me and will most likely outlive me, please, I trust you will see to it that they are followed.
Morbid... maybe.
But none-the-less.... an act of love.
If the second beneficiary is reading this.... I love you.
No comments:
Post a Comment