I, in some small way, was kidding myself

He's not OK.

The effects of the radiation and first chemo treatment are rapidly catching up with him.

Today I was supposed to have the morning and early afternoon to myself to do "house" things. I called in sick to work hoping to get some rest from the hideous allergies that I was suffering from so I didn't have high hopes in getting a lot done, however.....

He walked in at 9:30AM. He hadn't been gone an hour all told. Confuse me?

I wasn't even out of bed. Laptop on my lap - I looked up over my glasses and realized he looked grey. GREY!

And the clear exhaustion on his face and general fatigue that was taking over his body, well, frankly it scared me.

He wanted to sleep desparately. I gave him a melatonin and he was out in about 15 minutes. I left the house to go to the pharmacy and pick up some letters for the state aid programs. I was gone from 11:30 -3PM I came home and he was still sleeping.

I did the dishes, I completely organized all our cd's - you wouldn't believe the number of CD's 2 musicians can manage to accumulate. I left to teach one lesson. I came home and he was still sleeping. I put the dishes away. And then he woke up. It was after 7. He tried to eat. Really he did - but he has no appetite.

Everything tastes salty to him. I made him Kraft white Cheddar mac and cheese - no dice. we added american to it - still no dice. finally gave up and ate an italian ice. That was OK.

It stayed down too. That made me happy. He's drinking unbelievable amounts of water. That's good too.

I'm worried but trying to keep one step ahead of the curve with the symptoms. He's going to be out most of the day tomorrow at the medicaid office and radiation. I want to hang his pictures up with mine. Something to cheeer him a little.

I was kidding myself when I thought he would get through with minimal side effects. These are coming somewhat fast and furious. If I'm honest with myself they were starting Friday not Saturday.

stay tuned.